For some reason, this ubiquitous headline always makes me stop for a glance.  The latest version I perused was filled with exotic destinations and pictures of smiling model families having the time of their lives.  SCUBA diving in the Maldives, skiing in Switzerland and Disney in Japan  – typical family vacations, right?   I love reading about the dream destinations but know that my family vacation would be nothing like those described.  Where are the whining kids (I don’t want to get wet)?  The runny noses?  The bickering (she looked at me)?

It did get me thinking….what makes the best family vacation?

The best family vacations are not about the destination – in fact, they are as likely to happen in your own neighborhood as in an expensive theme park.  They are about the precious few magical moments when it all comes together.  It’s the kids being enchanted by an out-of-the way fountain or playing in a new-found park.  The sweet taste of gelato when no one is worried about making a mess.  The wonder at seeing Cinderella’s Castle for the first time.

Come home from a vacation remembering the magical moments and it truly was a “best family vacation.”

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Gearing kids up to ski is no easy feat – especially the first few times you head out to the slopes.  Read the ski school guidelines and they give a laundry list of required items but we have found that it is the little things that make or break the day.  Here is my list of little things to remember.

1.  Glove/Mitten Cats.  Kudos to the Spyder company for finally designing mittens with a convenient loop snap that attaches to a loop on their jacket sleeves.  If your mittens/jackets aren’t this hi-tech, your kids NEED mitten clips.  I prefer the Glove Cats because the clips hold firm and they are just the right length.  Why are these necessary?  Little kids are always pulling off their gloves  – just ask any ski instructor and they will tell you they spend half the day putting mittens back on kids.  These clips prevent mittens from getting left behind.  The length is important – too short and they are difficult to attach but too long and dangling mittens drag on the ground and fill with snow.

2.  Good socks.  It is worth the money to buy high quality padded ski socks that fit properly.  Never get socks with “room to grow” that is a recipe for blisters!  Also, our socks tend to shrink during the year so I buy an extra pair to open later in the ski season.

3.  Labeled helmet.  No one likes to dwell on their kids getting injured but when you see someone coming down on a sled with ski patrol, all helmets look remarkably similar.  Label your kid’s helmet so you can easily distinguish it.  My kids have a purple snake drawn in Sharpie on the top of their helmet and helmet tails (we made fish tails and cheetah tails that attach to the back goggle strap with a zip tie – comment if you are interested in instructions on how to make your own).

4.  Contact information.  Tuck a business card with your mobile number in at least one pocket.

What little things do you need for a successful ski day with kids?

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Five Things You Should Never Leave Home Without

I have long marveled at the people that seem to have everything at their fingertips – need a tissue?  They have one handy.  Need a bandage?  No sweat.   My mom is one of those people and I always thought that, once I became a mom, it would magically happen for me as well.  No such luck!  Instead I still rely on mom and my handy list (of which I try to have at least a few of at any given time).  Here is my list of must have items.

1.  Tissues and wipes for runny noses and sticky fingers.

2.  Bandages and antiseptic wipes.  Character or design bandages work like magic with my kids and instantly stop tears.  They also seem to arrest a meltdown – especially if it isn’t really needed.   Remember, they stop meltdowns in other kids so be generous with your supply!

3.  Cloth tape measure.  This is handy for quick measurements and kids love to play with it.  My kids have walked around many stores measuring boxes, chairs, legs, wrists, pretty much anything and everything.  You can find fun animal tape measures here but, honestly, my favorite is the blue or white ones from the Container Store.   A note of caution – the retraction can be fast and whip the end around towards the face – teach kids to hold the tape away from them and/or turn their head to avoid getting hit with the end.

4.  Small notepad, pen and/or crayons.  We use our notepad for everything from drawing pictures to playing tic tac toe to practicing math facts.  Pick one with perforated pages that are easy to tear out so you can share pages with multiple kids and make sure you have enough writing tools so everyone can have their own.

5.  Small toys.  You don’t need a toybox in your bag but a few little cars, small animals, bendi dolls or similar items can be a lifesaver!

What are your must have items?

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Ready to unplug your kids for a little while?  Try these travel games on your next trip and add some family fun to your next journey.

1.  Road Trip Game:  Fun for the entire family this small box will keep you busy for hours of highway miles.   The 10 classic road trip games and the travel quizzes are standard road trip fare – it is the 45 conversation starter questions that can really spice things up on a long journey.

2. Hangman:  Ready to step up from the paper version?  There are many variations on the market but our family favorite is the wooden hangman from Melissa & Doug.  It’s slim design tucks easily into the back of a seat and it’s durable construction stand the test of time and kids!

3.  License Plate Game:  Another travel classic that is available in a variety of formats.   We keep a magnetic version in our car and always have a game going.

4.  Spot It:  This is a new family favorite!  There is always one and only one matching symbol between any two cards – be the first to spot it and win.  Perfect for backseat fun, although we play it more while waiting at restaurants.

5.  Tell Tale:  This award winning game involves the entire family.  Use the illustrated cards to create stories in teams or all together – works for travel or as a family party conversation starter.

What are your favorite family travel games?

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As with all sports, ski resorts know they have to appeal to younger skiers – and not just the coveted 18-24 demographic.   Ski resorts need the toddler set to grow up loving to ski.  Not only does that breed an adult skier, resorts understand that the entire family will not book a ski vacation if one of the kids hates to ski/board.  With that in mind, ski resorts are pulling out all the stops to build a safer, less frustrating bunny slope experience.

Slope Improvements:  The bunny slopes used to be created out of an otherwise unusable hill somewhere on the resort property or, worse, at bottom of a long run.  No longer!  Resorts are paying attention to the beginner experience by regrading slopes, installing magic carpet conveyor lifts to haul skiers back to the top (instead of traditional lifts) and locating them near the ski school.  Breckenridge actually has bunny slopes within the confines of their kids’ ski school so the under 7 crowd can learn to stop and turn in a controlled environment (that is conveniently just steps away from hot cocoa & bathrooms).

Safety Improvements:  One of the most difficult things for kids to do on skis is get back up once they take a tumble.  Handled jerseys help ski instructors (or parents) stand kids up when they fall.  They also allow lift operators to give a much needed “pull back” to little kids riding the lift.  Some resorts are taking this further with the addition of magnetized jerseys.  The magnets stick to the backs of lifts for the ride and the lift operator demagnetizes them at the top so kids can exit the chair lift.  An interesting concept that I would like to see in action.

Convenience Factors:  Ski nannies and valets are becoming more and more popular with resorts.  They help shuttle the kids to and from ski school, which is not an easy task with multiple kids and all their gear.  Telluride has staff in parking lots to help parents get kids and gear safely to the ski school.  Resorts have also spent money renovating and enlarging the children’s indoor spaces so they are inviting and fun for kids in between ski runs.

Happy Travels!

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